When Family Expectations Collide: A Story About Grace & Truth

By Barbara Rainey | November 26, 2024 | 0 Comments

In the first year of our marriage, Dennis and I made an unintentional and yet very serious mistake, one that inflicted profound disappointment on two very important people. The rolling, repeating waves resulting from our mistake washed over onto us, too, and the drying out took longer than we ever imagined. Like most newlyweds Dennis […]

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The Divine Pattern In Adoption, Part 2: What My Daughter Taught Me About God’s Love

By Barbara Rainey | November 11, 2024 | 0 Comments

When our adopted daughter was in her late teens I was spent, not just by our journey with her but also from parenting all six of our children for so many years. In addition, my heart was wounded by the fallout and heartache, and my body was deeply fatigued from the burden of unrequited love. […]

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Lessons from Adoption, Part 1: God Chose Us

By Barbara Rainey | November 4, 2024 | 0 Comments

When our six children entered middle school and the teen years my prayers for them increased in focus and intensity. In fact, I started two prayer groups of moms which met weekly during the school years on Monday mornings. In the first group we prayed for teachers, tests, and friendships. We prayed that our kids […]

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The Phantom Mom

By Barbara Rainey | October 28, 2024 | 15 Comments

We women know well that comparison is a constant nemesis.  But did you know that our daily measuring of ourselves has created a collage of ideals, an image of perfection, a phantom “me” within that can haunt us? One day I pulled a cute shirt out of the corner of our closet where my spring/summer […]

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5 Ways to Grow Creativity in Your Children

By Barbara Rainey | October 7, 2024 | 1 Comment

You know the name George Washington Carver, right? You know he invented a crazy number of products from the lowly peanut. But do you know that he talked to God constantly as he worked in his laboratory? His conversations went something like this: “Lord God, you made the peanut. You know every molecule. You know all […]

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