The Bookend Recipe: When Differences No Longer Seem Cute

By Barbara Rainey | September 21, 2026 | 0 Comments

My favorite book I’ve ever written is Letters to My Daughters. I still love it because it’s a truly beautiful book with art and calligraphy throughout the interior. I also love it because it’s a summary of all the lessons I’ve learned in the married years of my life; therefore it’s the essence of who […]

When You Feel Out of Sync Spiritually with Your Husband

By Barbara Rainey | September 14, 2026 | 0 Comments

Dear Mom: I thought we were really well matched when we got married—in our faith, that is—but I’m realizing we are really different here, too. It seems like we are doing well, and then out of the blue it feels like we are out of sync, or totally missing each other. It always catches me […]

Avoiding Comparison When You Think Your Marriage Seems Harder than Others

By Barbara Rainey | June 15, 2026 | 0 Comments

Dear Mom: I love my man. I’m thankful for him. But Mom, our relationship seems to be so much harder than other people’s. I just don’t understand. It’s like we are on autopilot, just going through the motions. To my creative girls (all of you, yes, all of you!): In the years when getting to […]

Don’t Grow Lazy in Your Marriage

By Susan Yates | June 1, 2026 | 2 Comments

by Susan Alexander Yates Note from Barbara: I remember when I was newly graduated from college and living in a new state, South Carolina. Every day was an adventure of discovery, including meeting new people. At a women’s tea, in a room full of total strangers, I met a young woman who stood out. I […]

50 Lessons from 50 Years of Marriage (Part 4): Committing Our Relationship to God

By Dennis and Barbara Rainey | December 15, 2025 | 1 Comment

This is the final installment in a four-part series presenting some of the key lessons we’ve learned during over 50 years of marriage. If you enjoy these lessons that we’ve been sharing, be sure to get our book, Our Story. It includes the entire list, plus the story of how God brought us together over 50 […]

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